Where Everyone Knows Your Name

     Yes, I have to work today and not just writing this blog post. My task today is to assist a very good friend of mine at a charity tournament that I help with every year.  It seems as though I am the designated ball procurer and I have done that. This year's tournament is at a public course and I will also be an on the course assistant and will not play.  The whole thing is for a great cause so I don't mind not playing, but I will be busy and have to leave soon.  Here is a post from November of 2015 that I think you will enjoy. We often forget the social aspect of the game and this may well get you to thinking about how that is an essential part of our game and why we enjoy the game so much.
     I used to watch Cheers on TV.  My favorite character was Norm as he was the one who everyone greeted as he walked in. I can relate to that, although I have also been accused of being a Cliff Clavin as sort of a know it all. I prefer the Norm persona. At our course I was the Norm and was always greeted with I "Hey Dave", one thing that I truly miss now that I moved away from Fresno and don't play golf regularly. I have no golf course that I regularly go to as was the case when I was a member of the club in Fresno.
     That is one of the great things about the wonderful game we play. Playing is wonderful as it is a great game which requires a good amount of skill, strength and mental toughness. But when the round is over, there are others that have played and it is a lot of fun to go over your round with golfers who have also played.  The nineteenth hole makes golf unique.  The social part of the game I think is what makes  the game so addictive.      
     There is nothing like walking into the pro shop and being greeted by your first name. What's next is truly priceless as well, and that is when you receive the good natured ribbing and teasing from the other golfers that know you. You know most of the people in the shop and they are there to play.  It is a wonderful experience and you are part of it. That atmosphere continues after you finish your round when it starts all over again rehashing the round.  You do this not only with those in your foursome, but whoever played that day. This is special.
       Even if you are at a strange course and don't know a soul, by the time your round is over you have made new friends. The nineteenth hole is still a place to tell the stories of your round and of your families It is a time to relate to other golfers who have many of the same experiences you do. Five hours ago you were strangers, now you have a very strong bond. You began five hours ago as strangers and now you have come together almost as brothers and sisters.  There is nothing like it in any sport.
       It will never be "Hey, Norm" but I miss the "Hey Dave". Maybe soon, this will change.

The stories they tell.